People make it more complex than it needs to be.
Love is with your heart. When you love someone, you care about that person and you imagine a future with each other. A real future where you can build upon each other and trust each other, no matter what.
People with quality and with that, I mean: good people, people who are beautiful from the inside, are capable of making love the best thing that has ever existed.
Take Şener Şen and Neset Ertaş. The first is one of Turkey’s best actors. An enlightened man who has meant a lot for the Turkish film industry. Neset Ertas. An “aşik”, a real romantic man who just loved one girl in his life and married her. One of the biggest artists of Turkey, but not recognized as such, because of the stupid music culture in this country, where being naked and saying weird words are still considered as “better”.
This video would make a grown man cry. Neset Ertaş, reading a poem he wrote himself for Sener Sen. Sener Sen thinks he is going to say some nice things. He does! But it’s more than that… it gets him. It makes him emotional. You can see the smile turning into a sad face, because he feels the love Neset Ertas has for him. Not love as being gay or something, no, just pure love. One of the best Turkish musicians, telling one of the best actors ever how much he adores him as a person. The most beautiful part is “gözlerinden öperim”… something my grandpa said to me too. Still one of the best things I could ever hear someone saying.
Rest in peace, Neset Ertas. You guys deserve heaven for being so pure.