A relationship is something sacred. It’s between two people; nothing more, nothing less. A relationship within a family is different than a relationship between a man and a woman, where we can speak of love and being a couple. Cheating within family is utterly sad, but cheating within a relationship is just bad.
Relationships are failing these days, because of dickheads who think they can do anything, without being punished for it. You have a type who thinks he has a chance and tries to mix himself into an ongoing relationship. This means that person is just stupid and nothing more than a homewrecker who pretends to be good, just to get what he wants. Can that be any good? It can’t, because it’s doomed to fail. How would you even trust an idiot like that, even if you would get into a relationship with him? He might do the same thing again, but this time with someone else, ruining your own relationship. Anyone who tries to enter an ongoing relationship, is a dickhead. And yes, it’s just an understatement. Honourable men or women would never do that. It’s the same as I would start texting with a woman while I know she is married; what good can that bring?
I have seen so many relationships go wrong, just because people can’t stay loyal and they let manipulate themselves. It’s crazy when you think about how much that happens. It shouldn’t happen, but it does and that’s only because people can’t be strong. I really adore people who are strong and fierce when they need to be. You need to be able to trust each other and to build upon each other; that’s what a relationship means. Why would someone else be in a relationship anyway?
Integrity, loyalty, honesty, transparency aren’t just words. They are actions and they are the essential ingredients of successful relationships. Some people just need to make big mistakes to understand what they are missing out, but sometimes that can be late. Cherish the people who want to forgive you and start being good. It’s the least one can do.